Need help with paying utilities, food and mortgage

mom42angels
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Posted by mom42angels

on Dec 4, 2006

I am a single mother of 5 boys, ages 14, 10, 32 months, and twins that are 23 months.  I am recently separated and have gotten myself into tremendous financial stress.  I can't make my mortgage payment, have almost $2,500 in utility bills that I can't make and am desperately seeking some resources that might be able to help me.  If anybody knows where I might be able to get some assistance, I would appreciate any information.  I do work full time, am looking for a part time job, and am willing to do whatever it takes to keep my family afloat, so long as it is ethical and legal. 
Categories: Food, mortgage, Utilities, daycare
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2. same boat posted on Jul 26, 2008

have you tried to modify your mortgage?  If you have an ARM, Interest Only or a high fixed rate, you can combine all your mortgages and Line of Credit with the bank.  You will need to find someone (lawyer) who can do this for you as the banks don't deal well with the consumer.  It takes about one to two months.  No appraisal needed either and your scores can be in the 500's.  Most brokers are charging 1% of the loan amount for their services.  You can not get cash out.  They will give you a 30 fixed rate starting at the rate of approx. 61/4%. (todays rate).  Act fast as I hear some of the banks are pulling out of doing the modifications in Sept.  Don't know what all the banks are going to do with all the foreclosures once this happens but worth a shot.  I did it and am waiting for an answer and yes, I do mortgages too.  Trying to get all my clients to do the same. 

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1. Essemsee posted on Jul 24, 2008

I wish god would bless me with lottery winnings because I would help people in your situation, sad thing is that I am not in a good financial situation either

 

Good Luck.As if that pays bills right????

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